💌 Should You Tip Your Wedding Vendors? Here’s the Honest Truth
At McEllis Brides, we believe your wedding should be filled with grace, joy, and the people who make your vision come to life. But as the final details start to fall into place, one question we hear often is:
“Am I supposed to tip my wedding vendors?”
Let’s break it down—stress-free and without the guesswork.
💼 Tipping Isn’t Always Required—But It’s Always Appreciated
Most wedding professionals are entrepreneurs who price their services based on the full value of their expertise. That means a tip is never required—but when someone goes above and beyond, it’s a lovely way to say, “I see you, and I’m grateful.”
📝 Who You Should Consider Tipping
Here’s a quick cheat sheet you can save or screenshot. 👇
💄 Hair & Makeup Artists
Suggested Tip: 15–25%
Same as a salon service. If your artist made you feel like Beyoncé walking down the aisle? Tip generously.
🧁 Delivery Staff (Cake, Rentals, Florals)
Suggested Tip: $5–$20 per person
If someone is sweating in the summer sun carrying Chiavari chairs, a thank-you and a tip go a long way.
🍽️ Caterers & Bartenders
Suggested Tip: 15–20% of the total (unless gratuity is already in your contract)
Always double-check your invoice. Some “service charges” aren’t actually gratuity.
✝️ Officiant
Suggested Tip: $50–$100 or a donation to their church
If your officiant is a friend or family member, consider gifting something sentimental instead.
🎶 DJ or Musicians
Suggested Tip: $50–$150
If your DJ read the room perfectly or your violinist brought guests to tears, that deserves a little love.
📸 Photographer / Videographer
Suggested Tip: Optional – $50–$200 is generous
Tipping is optional, but if they stayed late, gave you sneak peeks fast, or captured you like a Vogue bride, a tip is a beautiful bonus.
📋 Wedding Planner / Coordinator
Suggested Tip: Not expected – $100–$500 is a thoughtful thank-you
Especially if they handled last-minute drama like a pro (we all know there’s always something).
👗 Alterations Specialist / Dress Designer
Suggested Tip: Optional – a small tip or gift card is sweet
If they finessed your dream gown to fit like it was made for you (because it was), show your gratitude in your own heartfelt way.
✨ Not Tipping? Here’s What You Can Do Instead
If tipping isn’t in your budget, that’s OK! Here are some other ways to show your appreciation:
Write a glowing online review 💻
Send a handwritten thank-you note ✍🏽
Tag them in your wedding photos 📸
Refer your friends their way 📣
Treat them to coffee, a gift card, or a sweet treat 🍪
💍 From Our Heart to Yours
At McEllis Brides, we know your wedding is more than one day—it’s a moment in time that deserves love, care, and thoughtful details. Tipping is never an obligation, but gratitude always leaves a lasting impression.
As you prepare for your day, remember: kindness is a currency that never goes out of style.